Sunday, July 27, 2008

3 years in US...

These last few days have been really hectic. Time is flying ..
With a blissful engaged life, added responsibilities ,career concerns and associated struggle and hard work.. everything has been piled up and 24hours really seem less.

With so much to do , so much to look forward to ..I nearly fgt this day..27th July..
Today I will be completing 3 yrs in US...I can definitely say its been a whirlwind experience..I was waiting for this day since a while. In the first week of July I was planning to write up something specially dedicated to these 3 years of my life.

and as I sad it can be..Today m really feeling bad that I cannot devote as much time and energy that I really wanted to write an article for this day. Anyways, my dad called me write now saying "beta tula jaaon aaa 3 wersha jhale" I could definitely feel the heat in thr..He was really feeling sad about this whole thing. At least I guess so..it was not about my career/life it was me being away from the family..these few imp years when I really should be with them....

anyways, I wonder if all this is the best that I could offer them for all that they have done for me..sacrificed for my well being.. I wish I can go back to des as soon as possible and be with them for time to come, compensate for the lost times...

Apart from this front, life seems to have been playing a fair game. Looks green for now,I hope it does. Apart from all the good things that I have witnessed I believe meeting my life partner has been the biggest and most important phase. Soon we will be completing 1 year of committed relationship. Cant believe but its True..it feels just yesterday that we met and next month it will be one full yr !! I am so happy that I found her. She has been a loving/caring and one of the most understanding person in my life. She accepts Nikhil, with his my eccentric traits and even praises a few of them that even I wonder ..why ??? I love you dear..

All in all it will be difficult to phrase my feelings in words....
Happy for being with my partner, Vandita, and having a blissful life.
Sad for not being with aai , baba , ketki and aaji..I miss you all..love you loads..

lets see what life has in store for us in the coming year..



PS: few days back my frnd forwarded this link:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=nXcNcvmy-Tg
It has indeed touched me in a very subtle way.

Monday, July 21, 2008

US life.. 2

***Had writn this Blog long time ago..it was just saved and never published..Today was just cleaning my blog portal and wanted to post this one as it is..***



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I am like the most FUKAT guy ever.
It was a hectic week altogether. Got up on friday around 7 am. was about to go for bath when it struck me about an I day...alrite I day in my office is " Sick - ill day " . nd yu can take as many number of I days in a year as yu want.( until your manager really looks back at you :P)
So took this holiday and totally had a ball at my place. basically did nothing and spent one day full at home doing NOHTING. So unlike what I am ..but yeah it was a welcome change.

Neways recently we had this huge discussion at our daily chore of evening walk. We all were talking against us :) .... Amazing aint it

So here it goes. Recently everyones family members are kinda looking for marriage. Everyone wants to get their son/daughter get married like asap. They want us to get serious on this topic and look "AROUND". Now when someone asks them how thr son/daughter is?? they start with thr whole thing..Yeah yeah every mom thinks that hes got the best son and every dad thinks that hes son is like the brightest kid around rather only guy with all the qualities bestowed. Not that its thr fault probably every parent thinks that way. Even they are totally aware that there are guys who are far too much talented than thr son, they kinda ignore that fact pretty nicely. nd they are good at it. So anyways, in this whole confusion of whether we are good or not..one question popped in our discussion.

Mom dad apart. Given a condition, that my friend has a sister. His family thinks that I am "good" guy and approaches my family for the same. NOW that my friend knows me so NICELY..he knows what I think ..what I do ...what I crave for ...what goes in my mind forever..he totally knows me...he has been an accomplice in all my crimes or atleast witnessed everyone of them. He knows how irresponsible I can be.. how spendthrift I can be !!!!! he knows all my "vices".. Would he still recommend that I am "good" guy !!!

After the heated debate we all decide that we wont and wud never suggest each other for our own sisters :))))

FRANK, that we are !!!!

Cheers