Tuesday, September 18, 2012

The listserv

We all like to keep updated about well beings of our friends and family !
Talk to them read about them ..and what not.

But this interesting person thought of something beyond regular
he randomly created this website {thelistserve.com}Sorry not too sure if it was random or his genuine idea.
Whatever it is, its interesting.
Of all the people subscribed to this listserve, he randomly chooses one person , and that one person gets to send out an email to rest of the group ! Now neither the sender and nor the receiver has any idea about who are they !  Pretty amusing yeah ?yes it is, I have subscribed to it for a time now and every day I like to read one such random email from one my fellow crazy people out there in this world,

One of those emails was pretty interesting, so thought of sharing it here.



--------------------------------------------------------

I'm sorry to break this to you, in an e-mail from a random stranger like this, but it needs to be said: Most of your life won't be fantastic. I'm not joking. The adventures you'll tell your children about will be a minuscule part of it. So if you want to avoid the feeling of utter disappointment as you grow older, you need to accept that fact. Sorry.

This leads us to the insight: You should focus more on the non-fantastic parts. The parts where you eat breakfast, walk to the bus, have a boring day at work, eat your ordinary lunch, shop groceries, and brush your teeth. After all, this is the major part of your life, and neglecting it is a wasted opportunity.

Here's the thing: Most of the boring stuff in your life is so dull, that even the tiniest thing can make it seem fun. The tiniest thing. This means the you could make it better with extremely simple means.

What exactly am I talking about here? Little things. Like these:

* Challenges: When brushing your teeth tonight, use your left hand.
* Mind games: When you enter work (or school!), imagine the sound "Kabaaaam!" as you enter, as if your presence changed the whole room.
* Action: Jump down from the side-walk, instead of just stepping down.
* Changes: Buy some fancy tomato sauce tonight, instead of your usual brand.
* More action: Count the number of pink things on your way to work, as if your life depended on it.

See? Easy stuff. I really try to live by this "Everyday Action" idea, and I think it works for making the boring parts of life more fun. Because that's the thing: just because the fantastic moments are few, there's no reason to just sit there, waiting for the next big thing to swipe you off your feet. Have some fun meanwhile, it's easy...



--------------------

This article has struck me and seems like its gonna stay with me..
Hope this strikes a chord for you too. I kind of agree with the the author and would like to follow it for coming days...

Mexico vacation :)

So I am not really a pro vacation kinda guy. Well I should take it back , I love to go on vacations but hate to plan it. Not really a great quality I must say and hopefully I will get better at planning.
Thankfully though marriage does that thing to you, where your other ( better ) half does cover up for your misfires. So yes we ended up planning our mexico trip, it was due for a long time now.

We booked an amazing sea front all inclusive kinda resort at mexico and had a great trip.
The next day after the trip I had to recount the story to my office friends and this chat log below is from the real conversation right there. NO Edits.

Btw I must tell you I have done something like this before too...
here {http://onestepupontheladder.blogspot.com/2009/08/chaddi-pahalwaan.html}
and this one is similar to it in many ways and yet unique !
BTW This time around, its Rater A ! pls be careful haha :)



08:39:17  RUCHI NAIK : Morning!

08:57:22  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Morning all

08:58:11  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Ruchi jd to answer your question, I am so excited to tell a story here !  Similar to the elevator wala super man really

08:58:22  RUCHI NAIK : We're excited too!

08:59:20  RUCHI NAIK : If my memory serves me right, Friday shaam tak u thought you were going to Mexico

08:59:29  RUCHI NAIK : *thursday

09:01:34  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : But this time in short : We fly LGA_ > ATlantata -> Mexcio.
We reach thr, mexcio me they let me in, and don't allow vandita to even enter

yes, for some reason they did not like the new card EAD + AP all in together ( its new format ) and wanted to see 10 more documents,

Guess what it was full on movie style for next 4 hours at airport, I cudnt see her/talk to her BY LAW, she was with them in the questioning area , I was escorted out of airport !

All fun

I called in 10 people here to get this sorted, but nothing really was working our way...

In 4 hours , we boarded a flight back to Atlanta yes same day we were back to US !

Guess what flight was at 3 05 and they did not drop her to the gate entrance till 2 50 ! We were sh*t scared as to are we going to get back together on the same flight or not !

09:02:37  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : But thankfully they got her in on time...We flew to atlanta !, and literally asked the airlines, where else are they flying tonight from atlanta....

most destinations we had already checked out before, so booked next days travel to Puerto rico ! So thr goes puerto rico one more time heh

09:02:56  RUCHI NAIK : Wow! For about 2 days??

09:04:01  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : It was interesting all the way !

09:04:38  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Puerto rico me bhi kafi interesting stay tha , waha pe items hue but overall first 2 days were disastrous, but Friday evening 3 pm we were at puerto rico

09:05:37  RUCHI NAIK : I hope the next 3 days made up for the madness, though

09:05:55  RUCHI NAIK : Will you get any money back from the Mexico bookings?

09:08:19  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Money wise this trip was quiet interesting

09:08:44  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Puerto rico me madam ko BEST hotel me rehne ka tha to feel good about the whole fiasco

09:08:53  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN :  don't blame her

09:09:08  RUCHI NAIK : hehehe

09:09:20  NAUMAN RUPANI : dude u shud have tried priceline

09:09:59  NAUMAN RUPANI : I think it gets very costly in San Juan, near beach & airport

09:10:37  AMOL KOTHARI : Wow NM... kuch na kuch to karke hi aate ho tum log har baar

09:11:01  NAUMAN RUPANI : AK - remember I mentioned abt "haath ko aaya moun na laga" ?

09:11:26  AMOL KOTHARI : Yeah.. NM booking ke paise waapis mile?

09:17:26  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Mexico k logo se deal kar raha hu

09:17:50  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : I actually want to tell what happened at Puerto rico hotel though !

09:18:23  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : It was a pretty fundu hotel...amazing views and everything ...guess what waha pe miss world k models aaye hue the for press photo shoot and everything !

09:20:53  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : But that's not least interesting in front of this next item !

09:21:13  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Hum log room me tv dekh rahe the, gappe maar rahe the and we heard Noises from neighboring room

09:21:16  AMOL KOTHARI : Tum log vacation ke liya jaate ho yeah tension lene

09:21:24  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : And by noise I mean NASTY

09:21:34  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : If you know what I mean

09:21:40  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Efffff it was creepy

09:21:43  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : We ran away from the room

09:21:46  NAUMAN RUPANI : movie shooting types ?

09:21:49  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : YES

09:21:53  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : I m not kidding

09:22:03  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Effing creepy,

09:22:12  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : We ran away...and then complained to the holte

09:22:20  AMOL KOTHARI : Action movie or p*rn movie shooting ?

09:22:27  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : The later

09:22:36  AMIT MALANI : hahah

09:22:40  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : SICK SICK

09:22:50  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : And we came back in an hour

09:22:57  NAUMAN RUPANI : is picture mien drama bhi hai, comedy bhi hai, horor bhi hai, action bhi hai

09:23:02  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Every 2-3 hours this continued, I was so grossed

09:23:04  AMIT MALANI : You got a "side" role in a in a p* movie

09:23:30  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : At the peak, raat ko 3 am ko suddenly awaj aai to hum uth gaye...

09:23:50  NAUMAN RUPANI : Nikhil ke bache bolenge .. 25 saal pehle mere daddy bhi kisi kisi picture ke crowd mien khare dikhte hain

09:23:51  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : BC< MC raat ko 3 baje bhi ...i lost it by then

09:24:13  AMOL KOTHARI : BC MC.. hindi p*rn movie thi kya?

09:24:22  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Hahha woh mere words the

09:24:29  AMOL KOTHARI : Tu movie mai kab aaya?

09:24:46  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Mai woh actor tha jo baje k room se knock karta hai

09:24:51  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Excuse me pls bol k

09:24:51  NAUMAN RUPANI : Nikhil was providing "Hindi Subtitles" to the movie

09:25:06  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : It was horrible

09:25:12  AMOL KOTHARI : Knock karta hai for "pizza delivery"?

09:25:15  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : ))

09:25:36  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Next day morning I basically went nuts on the management...

09:25:40  JITESH DANI : I just went thru the whole chat log!!!

09:25:42  JITESH DANI : Whatttttttttttt the

09:25:50  JITESH DANI : Kya kaar ke aaya tu NM!

09:25:51  JITESH DANI : Continue

09:25:54  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Phir hume upgrade mila...whatever , but I can tell you this was a fun filled vacation

09:26:42  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : First 2 days, fiasco with travel !
Next day landing at new destination al together.
Second last day this movie shooting !
Last day no new event

09:26:51  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : But all in all , let me say , maja aaya, bahot

09:26:56  JITESH DANI : wow

09:26:56  JITESH DANI :

09:27:00  JITESH DANI : fundoo

09:27:16  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Imagine standing at atlanta airport , asking airlines: where else do you fly in next 10 hours

09:28:51  JITESH DANI : Set hai!

09:29:06  JITESH DANI : bolo bhai, tera plan kidher fly kaar rahela hai..apun ko uther fly karne ka hai

09:29:13  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : exactly

09:29:13  JITESH DANI : plane*

09:29:24  NIKHIL MUKUND MAHAJAN : Exciting journey thi

09:31:14  AMOL KOTHARI : Chal bfast

09:32:33  AMOL KOTHARI : gone

Saturday, September 01, 2012

Its the little things...

I somehow recollect writing about this long time back.
not sure if I ended up publishing the blog or not but here we go again.

Cities like NYC/singapore/mumbai that have great public transporation probablly go throuhg this a lot
every weekday, you get in the train, meet fellow passengers
and end up meeting lots of friends/train friends/strangers: share a glance or two.
everyone has their own vibes, You meet a positive person and your day starts amazing.
you meet a melodramatic person and your day starts a little gloomy !

Its almost a fashion statement now a days
to say "aah its monday, damn it..."
you ask someone "hey how are you"
Answer : same old dude same old. SSDD : same shit different day !

Why this kolaveri guys ?

Granted we have our own issues and every day you cant be at top of your moods, but at least some days ?
why not a simple good morning with a smile  ?

Anyways, got to write about a lady and uncle whom I really like and yes they do fall on other side of this bridge.

Train conductor..

This conductor who is on the trains on wed-fri, when we reach our last stop , instead of just announcing the stop name, when people are getting down: he does an impromptu ( i guess )
3 min gig
- Thank you all for riding this train today morning
  Its wednesday today, but dont worry friday is coming...:)
  hope you have a great day today , remember to smile and njoy your day..
- Thank you all for riding this train today morning.
  we hope you njoyed your ride. Life is small, lets let it happily.
  Let god worry about your problems, he is there to help you out.
  Stay tight and smile a bit..have a great day

and many such variations.Guess what it does bring a smile on so many faces.
RESPECT, yes lot of respect for this guy.Havent met him yet but I do want to meet him in person
and thank him for this lil gesture.Its the little things...

The Newspapaer lady.

At the very entrance of our subway statoin, lot of people distribute free daily newspapers.
Everyone is shouting at top of their voices for ads/specials doing thr business , but there is this one lady
who makes my day everyday. Everytime you walk up to her
SMILE : - hello my darling , good morning - : SMILE
SMILE : - honey a very good morning    - : SMILE 
SMILE : - Darling you have a great day   - : SMILE 

and many such varieties.
Guess what that little smile I see on her face, that one liner I get everyday from her ! yes I love it . I am sure she makes at least some hundred people smile every day.

I walked up to her and told her last week,
Me: Hey you do know that your lil smile and one liner does make my day
LADY : BIIIIIIIG SMILEE : nooooooooooooooooooooo honey are you serious
Me: yes I am very very serious, in fact I almost walk up to you everyday to pick that newpaper and almost wait for
your one liner and that smile !
LADY HUGS me and tells the cop standing by us and is rejoiced !
I told her today that I am going to write a blog about her and she just couldnt believe it.
didnt ask her name for privacy concerns. To me she is the Smiling lady with the newspaper..


Guess what, now everyday I go by her , there is a even greater smile and it does make my day very bright.